This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Robbie Palmer who was born in United Kingdom on January 16, 1977 and passed away on October 25, 2008 at the age of 31. We will remember him forever.

Robbie was a Son, Father, Brother, Uncle and Friend someone who lit up a room with a friendly smile and funny ways. He was the life and sole of any party.

Robbie P was somebody who could put a smile on a sad face and make any situation a fun one. His funny ways were who he was and what made him so special.

He touched eveverybody he met and has so many friends, he will never be forgotton and always remembered.

Missed and loved forever.x

A Life so Young

Released to heaven...

Left from earth we wonder "Why?"

But some are sent among us briefly...

Some have spirits meant to fly.

You are being remembered...every single day Rob.

We thought of you with love today,

But that is nothing new.

We thought about you yesterday

and days before that too

we think of you in silence

we often speak your name

now all we have is memories

and your picture in a frame

your memory is our keepsake

with which we will never part

God has you in his keepings

we have you in our hearts.

If Roses grow in heaven,

Lord, Please pick a bunch for me.

Place them in my Robbies arms,

and tell him there from me.

Tell him that we love & miss him.

and when he turn,s & smiles,

Place a kiss upon his cheek,

and hold him for a while.

Because remebering him is easy,

i do it everyday.

But there's an ache within my heart,

that will never go away.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Our Son

On the day God took you,

I thought that i would die.

I wondered where the time went?

I asked a lot of whys?

with people all around me,

I felt alone inside.

From all thier words of comfort,

I could'nt seem to hide.

I thought i might be dreaming,

That i'd wake and find you here.

I thought "this can't be happening."

As i wiped another tear.

On the day that you were laid to rest,

My heart broke yet again.

I wondered if the pain would end,

But mostly, I wondered when?

It's hard to be without you Rob,

At times the days seem long.

Sometimes i just sit crying,

When there's really nothing wrong.

I wish we had more time Rob,

before your time was done.

I hope your resting peacefully

Our Precious 

I have lost a life-not my own

But it would have been easier

to have lost my own life

than to have lost

the life i love more than my own.

A Mothers Pain

You see me smilingg

What you don't see is that i am screeming behind that smile.

You see me go on with everything...Work...Groceries...life in general.

what you don't see is that it takes every ounce of energy

I have just to breath,

you see me alone with my thoughts,

What you don't see is me talking to him

You see me say "im fine"

What you don't see is the huge hole in my heart that can never be filled.

You see me & think "she's back to normal".

What you don't see is there is no normal for me anymore.

You see me & think "Oh my Godi hope this never happens to me"

What you don't see is that as much as i long for you to understand me... I hope this never happens to you either.

You see me joking & laughing with others & think "she must be getting over what has happened"

What you don't see is that i can never forget, nor would i want to, you don't get over the loss of a child.

You see me sad & don't know what to say, so you keep going,

what you don't see is all i really want is for you to ask how i am doing, really & give me a hug.

You see that life goes on,

What you don't see is that on October 25th 2008 that the life i had will never be the same.

You see that i am strong... do not be deceived

What you don't see is that i am week and weary, somedays " i am 6 feet from the edge".

What you see is a mask... a lie. The mask helps you cope with me and me cope with myself.

What you don't see is the raw sometimes unbearable pain,

You don't see me being unable to breath.

What you don't see is my despair.

You don't see me screaming to heaven for God to give my Son back.

What you don't see you could never understand anyway

unless you walk a mile in my shoes... God Forbid